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Candlelight

One match. Seven candles. Real connection.

Dating built on scarcity and intentionality — not endless swiping.

🔒 Must be 18+ to use Candlelight
🕯️ One match at a time 🔥 AI coaching 🛡️ Verified profiles

How It Works

1

Verify Your Number

Enter your phone number and verify it with a code sent via SMS. One number, one account, one human.

2

Build Your Profile

Share who you are — photos, interests, what you're looking for. Your profile is your story.

3

Light Your Candles

Each day for seven days, light a candle to reveal more about your match. Patience over impulse.

4

Meet Your Match

After seven days, contact unlocks. Plan a date with someone you've genuinely invested in getting to know.

Phone Verification & SMS

How we use SMS

Candlelight uses SMS exclusively for phone number verification during account creation. When you sign up:

We do not send:

SMS Keywords

You can manage your SMS preferences at any time:

STOP — Unsubscribe HELP — Support

Reply STOP to any message to stop receiving SMS. Reply HELP for support information. Message and data rates may apply.

Why Candlelight?

Modern dating apps are built on abundance — endless profiles, endless swipes, endless disappointment. Candlelight flips the model. You get one match at a time. Over seven days, daily candles reveal more about them. No shortcuts, no gaming the system.

Our behavioral scoring (ELO) rewards genuine engagement, not volume. AI coaching helps users who've picked up bad habits. And contact protection means you can't even message your match until you've both invested seven days of curiosity.

This is dating with intention. This is Candlelight.