Pushing this button will delete your entire profile and all related data. You will need to make another if you wish to continue using our service.

When you and your match start planning to meet up, we suggest date spots based on:

• Both people's dietary preferences
• Both people's price range
• Mutual interests from profiles
• Your shared location

Restaurants and venues can pay for premium placement in these suggestions. Sponsored cards look identical to organic ones — a steakhouse can't push itself to two vegans.

We never store your messages. Intent detection is transient — detect, suggest, discard.

Candlelight uses AI to analyze your conversations and behavior. Here's exactly what it does:

Reputation Scoring
The AI measures engagement quality — response rate, latency, initiation, and whether you're matching your partner's energy. This determines your match quality over time.

Safety & Policy
Conversations are scanned for harassment, abuse, scams, and policy violations. Reports and harmful patterns affect your ability to match.

Personality Learning
Over time, the AI learns your communication style, interests, and preferences to find better matches. This profile is tied to your account.

Your Control
Everything the AI knows about you can be deleted instantly with the Nuclear Button below. One tap, everything gone.

One Exception
Users removed for safety violations (harassment, abuse, exploitation) have their data retained to protect others. This is the only exception.